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God Works Through Who We Are and How We Live

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Each of the talks I attended at our homeschooling conference this year had the same message:  You can only pass on to your children what is already an integral part of you.  If you talk about something you don’t believe or do, they will not listen to what you say.

Or, as keynote speaker Steve Demme emphasized:

“You can teach what you know but you can only reproduce who you are.”

If we let God work deep in our own hearts, then we will become qualified to raise our kids.  The more we take in God’s love, the more we can give his love.  So, in order to be equipped to teach our children and to reach out to those around us, we need to spend time with God.  In other words, we need to read the Bible, ponder it, and pray.  Only then will we see our children as God sees them.  (From The Family that Stays Together Stays Together.)

This is also crucial in communication, because in communication our hearts are the fundamental issue.  For any dominant personality—and parents are by their very role in a dominant position—it is important to “create a safe place for others to hold opinions differing from mine while still feeling welcomed, embraced and loved”.  This involves living close to God; understanding the importance of love; watching our tone of voice, face, and body language; valuing understanding over convincing; and much more.  Then, from a point of trust and understanding, we can reach hearts.

In finances and stewardship, again, “your money story will be caught by your kids” and what you believe and do matters a whole lot more than what you say.

Similarly in sex education, “through our spiritual health, we impart health to our kids” and “we need to deal with our issues”.

Obviously, academic topics were presented at the conference as well, and academics are the meat of home education by definition.  There is no denying that.

On the other hand, as parents we need to heed the message that seemed to be the highlight of the conference:

In our families, God works through who we are and how we live more than by what we say, although that is important too.

And thus, for us homeschoolers, the take home message is summed up in a few simple, regular things:

Yes, academics are important.  Like you, I work very hard to provide my children with the best possible academic education, because that is what we have been called to do.  But for Christian parents, there’s something even more important, to teach our children to love and serve the Lord.

And that, according to Deuteronomy 6:4-9, is possible only if we live close to him ourselves.

May God bless us as we show our children what it means to love the Lord our God with our whole hearts, souls, minds, and strength, and our neighbors as ourselves—and may he patiently re-teach us parents the same thing, over and over and over, for we, like our children, forget so easily.

Did you ever learn something simple but profound at a homeschooling conference?

You can purchase the MP3 of this conference here

For more homeschooling encouragement see Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 Tuesday, Tell it to Me Tuesday, Finishing Strong, and Trivium Tuesdays.

Disclosure: I am not compensated for this discussion or for mentioning the MP3 recording.

Movie Review: Tim’s Vermeer

Tims Vermeer

When I walked into the library, our usually calm librarian started to bubble.  “Remember that DVD you recommended, Tim’s Vermeer?  I just watched it!”  And then, for the next five minutes she flitted from one scene or concept to the next, exclaiming, explaining, commenting, and enjoying the memories.

My teen daughters were not quite that enthusiastic, but they, too, were fascinated and learned a lot about art history, about optics in the 17th century, and about determination.

So, what is Tim’s Vermeer all about?

It addresses the enigma of the 17th century Dutch painter, Vermeer, from the viewpoint of a geek in the 21st century, suggesting that Vermeer used various arrangements of lenses and mirrors to paint his luminous scenes.  Historically, this approach is possible; in the days of Vermeer there was no artificial division between art and science.  Life and society were more unified in these respects and artists, who classed themselves among craftsmen, had not yet acquired the bohemian, angst-filled, anti-technology identity that is common (and probably inevitable) in our post-Christian era.

So Tim Jenison developed a hypothesis about how Vermeer, using the optical possibilities of his day, may have painted his incredible paintings.  And then, because he is wealthy, Tim was able to follow up on his ideas, research them, and actually paint the picture as Vermeer may have done.  What results is a fascinating and occasionally humorous experiment on a vast scale that taxes Tim to the limit but seems to validate his idea.

Not everyone agrees with Tim’s ideas, though similar ones have been discussed extensively among art historians.  However, as a physicist, an art enthusiast, someone who loves to think about light, and a person who has lived in the Netherlands, I find it interesting to ponder the following points:

–There is no provision in Tim’s method to deal with the subtle but significant changes in light from hour to hour as well as from day to day and season to season in the Netherlands.  Texas weather is, from what I understand, stable enough for light to be similar at many times, and that is where Tim worked.  My experience of Dutch weather is entirely different, and Tim does not deal with that question.

–Tim’s method requires a lot of time.  How is it possible paint something as moveable as the pouring milk in The Milk Maid, for example?  This is related to Nelleke’s questions about Vermeer’s subject’s fleeting facial expressions, which is an issue no matter how the painting was done.

–Since Vermeer was at least somewhat associated with Van Leeuwenhoek, the lens maker who worked on the microscope, he would have had access to the lenses required for Tim’s theory.

–However, it is possible that he used optical effects, which he obviously did, without doing the entire paintings using lenses and mirrors.

–In The Art of Painting, Vermeer did not show the artist using any sort of optics.  This raises many interesting questions, some of which are discussed under ‘special topics’ at the given link.

Although Tim based his ideas on those of respected art historians, not all of them agree with him or each other.  I hope to read Eye of the Beholder:  Johannes Vermeer, Antoni van Leeuwenhoek, and the Reinvention of Seeing to learn more about Dutch art and optics in the 17th century.

How did Tim’s Vermeer fit into our homeschool learning?  My teens learned about Vermeer, light, art historians, painting, optics, and thinking outside the box.  The movie’s story line captivated them despite their initial resistance, making Tim’s Vermeer a dramatic introduction to our video-based art history studies.

To find out more about this movie, see the trailer.  Note that there are a few language issues and also that the director and producer are not generally recommended. Even so, we recommend Tim’s Vermeer for teens and adults, especially homeschoolers studying art history, the physics of optics, Dutch history, or creativity–both in Vermeer and in Tim.   

You can see Vermeer’s works here.  I have had the opportunity to see a few of them in real life; because I was accompanied by children, I could never look at them long enough, but even so it was a remarkable experience.

I find that Helmantel sometimes does similar things with light, although his subject matter is not at all like Vermeer’s.

Disclosure:  I borrowed this DVD from the library and am not compensated for this review.  I would like to thank Nelleke of Education is a Life for introducing me to this remarkable movie.

Homeschooling Methods and Content Based Learning, Part 2

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One of our duties as homeschooling parents is to teach our children the knowledge base common to our culture to equip them to participate effectively in its conversations.  In Part 1 of Homeschooling Methods and Content Based Learning, I discussed this concept, what it means in everyday life, and how homeschooling methods can affect how well we achieve this goal.  With this in mind I outlined advantages and disadvantages of two of the four broad approaches to homeschooling, namely using a complete purchased curriculum and following curriculum outlines such as Ambleside Online or The Well Trained Mind.

Now, in the second part of this article, I look at the other two broad styles of homeschooling (eclectic homeschooling and unschooling/delight-directed learning), and also discuss our personal experience and discoveries.

Another option is to use an outline as part of our curriculum and fill in the rest from an eclectic mix of prepared curricula, delight-directed learning, outside classes, and co-operative learning.  Hirsch’s series What Your … Grader Needs to Know is useful for this, and the various outlines mentioned above are can also be used.

Advantages:  This method is extremely flexible and can meet varying needs of students and families quite well.  It allows homeschoolers to add material from their own culture more easily.  In the subjects in which official curricula are used, formal grades are easy to assign.

DisadvantagesIt is easy to miss important topics, and this method requires many decisions from year to year and throughout the year.  Also, there is the problem of parents needing to know about various topics or be willing to learn with their children, and in high school very few parents can keep ahead far enough to really benefit their children.  In many subjects, formal grades are difficult to assign.

Finally, a family can opt for unschooling or delight-directed learning, in which the student decides much of what is learned.  Many families do this to some extent along with their other methods of homeschooling, but some choose it as their exclusive way of learning.

Advantages: This can work very well if the parents expose their children to a wide array of concepts and activities and are aware of skills and content goals at different levels.  Children and teens who follow their own interests learn phenomenally well and master both skills and information almost effortlessly.  They regularly soar past their parents in their areas of interest, learning on their own at a very high level. They also learn how to learn and how to find resources to help them pursue their interests.

Disadvantages:  It is very easy to become unbalanced unless the parents have a list of goals in the backs of their minds and can use the students’ interests to address such other necessary goals.  With more than a few children, this mindset can become too exhausting for many parents.  Thus this method often produces stellar learning in a few areas and relative ignorance in others.  Formal grades are almost impossible to assign, but a portfolio of learning and achievement is often impressive and relatively easy to assemble.

What does our family do?  We mix various elements in an eclectic style, with a focus on the content of Classical Education and the methodology of Charlotte Mason, and with as much of the student’s input as possible.  Each child is different.  Some want textbooks, and some subjects, like high school science and math, almost require textbooks; others just want to do real world activities.  And each stage of development of each child is different, so our focus changes from year to year.  There have been gaps, but I work very hard to ensure that each child has a rigorous foundation in the major subjects and skills as well as ample opportunity to follow his or her own interests.

How has this worked in our family?  The content that really sticks has usually come from self-initiated learning, but the sparks for that have often come from ideas or suggestions from our outlines and curricula, as well as from other people, volunteering, and other outside sources.  Three of our children, currently in university, have very broad interests, knowledge, and skills that give them both confidence and a solid base for further learning.  The younger children, who have more access to screens, are not doing as well academically.

Here are some lessons we have learned about content rich education:

—Stories are one of the most powerful ways of learning, and the best stories have been collected into the world’s great literature.  However, most parents need help discussing this insightfully with their children.  That is one of the reasons we purchased the expensive Omnibus high school program from Veritas Press; it provides information and guidelines to help me guide my teens in their classical learning even though we rarely use the curriculum itself as intended.

—Narration is a very effective way for children to process information, and it enhances learning.

—Some skill-based subjects, such as math, foreign languages, and music, require a lot of practice and effort for mastery.  Delight-directed learning often needs a serious push here.

—There is no need to teach your child boring material, for the world is full of fascinating information on every topic.

—The Bible is fundamental, not only to faith, but also to an understanding of Western culture.  It is among the most important content any homeschooling family, Christian or non-Christian, can teach their children if they desire a classical education.

—Any child who spends a significant amount of time engaged in mindless media will suffer academically.

—If a child shows an interest in a topic, encourage that interest and provide resources and opportunities.

—Illness can be a time of learning if you are not focussed on a year by year curriculum but instead use a more eclectic style, choosing topics and methods that work for your child at that time.  For example, one of our teens spent many months reading in bed while recovering from severe pneumonia, and this benefited her in many ways.

—Switching between methods often means that a child will be missing some assumed knowledge and will repeat other topics.  This is something to remember before deciding to switch and will require extra work on the part of parents, but sometimes it is necessary.

— “Any method will work if the teacher does.” This thought from Ruth Beechick is probably true, but the reality is that sometimes a homeschooling mom cannot put in any more time or effort; then it is important to choose the method more carefully even though the initial switch may require extra work for a time.

There is nothing like leaving some good books lying around, if your children are readers.

Do our children have an education without gaps?  No.  Do they have a better basis than most other young people?  Certainly, and this is evident in university and in their interactions in society.  This seems to be because they know the Bible, the basics of history,  science, and nature study, and much about the current world, and because they are interested in many things.  Not surprisingly, many other homeschooled students have received a similar advantage from their years at home.

So, dear homeschooling mom, be strong and of good courage! Keep on ensuring that your children receive a quality education–in all senses of those words–to God’s glory.  May God bless our diligence and forgive us our mistakes and sins!

Now, these are just my thoughts and suggestions.  What do you do to make sure your children are well-educated?

For more homeschooling encouragement see Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 Tuesday, Tell it to Me Tuesday, Finishing Strong, and Trivium Tuesdays.

Disclosure: Although I mention several resources in this discussion, I am not compensated for doing so nor do I endorse all of them wholeheartedly.

Review: King Alfred’s English by Laurie J. White

King Alfreds English

This year I was looking for a way to teach my girls about the English language without teaching grammar itself.  I wanted to give them an understanding of its beauty and history so that they would learn to love it and also be able to use it more skillfully.

And then I was offered King Alfred’s English to review.  What a perfect resource to meet those needs!

In King Alfred’s English, Laurie J. White combines a study of history, linguistics, English literature, and the English Bible to show us the miracle of the language we speak.  From Caesar in 55 BC through Old, Middle, and Modern English, she traces native and foreign influences on the English language and shows how they affected both the structure of our language and its vocabulary….

To continue reading this review, please visit the Curriculum Choice.

For more homeschooling inspiration, visit Finishing Strong, and Trivium Tuesdays, Raising Homemakers.

Disclosure: I received a review copy of this book and, as usual, am not compensated for this review.

Homeschooling Methods and Content Based Learning, Part 1

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Imagine trying to follow any significant modern conversation, whether in person, online, or in print, without sharing a common knowledge base.  Imagine how lost you would often feel if you did not know anything at all about fairy tales, the Civil War, John F. Kennedy, the cell, Queen Victoria, Greek mythology, E=mc2, Buddhism, apartheid, the two world wars, jazz, DNA, football, or dinosaurs.

Part of our job as home educators is to teach our children this common knowledge base.  We do not need in-depth knowledge of any of these things, but we all do need some familiarity with them.  Many of them (such as those detailed in Hirsch’s Dictionary of Cultural Literacy) are a natural consequence of a high-quality, organized education.  Although very few of us can catch every allusion and reference of those around us, missing most of them can be a serious handicap, and is an inevitable result of a disorganized curriculum, a content-poor education, or being new to the culture.

Furthermore, missing many of them also makes it difficult to learn more.  It is like trying to read a passage that contains vocabulary you don’t know—you will need to work very hard to understand and, what’s more, you will most likely lose interest in the topic.  So it makes sense that many kids give up when confronted with something that is totally unintelligible to them.  And that, according to Hirsch in The Knowledge Deficit, is why many disadvantaged kids can never get ahead.

That is also something to keep in mind when we educate our children.  We do really need to provide a content-rich education as well as a skills-based one.  In other words, our children need to learn facts and information as well as skills.  That is also why, when our children are very young, we need to read to them, to have conversations, to expose them to many things, and to minimize empty screen time.  Children with such early backgrounds apparently start doing better than others around grade 5, when the basic skills have been mastered and basic cultural literacy becomes a factor.

So, what kind of content is important?  As the debate over the US Common Core Standards shows, there is no universal agreement on that.  However, most homeschoolers would agree that it includes at least the basic skills in reading, writing, and arithmetic as well as a solid knowledge of the Bible, history, basic science, and basic world culture (literature, worldviews, art, music).

The concept of learning facts and information is not necessarily fashionable in the world of public schooling, but we are not tied into that system.  Instead we can consider certain things as we teach our children.  With that in mind, I will discuss four broad styles of homeschooling: complete curriculum, scope and sequence guides, eclectic education, and unschooling/delight-direct learning. (The first two are addressed in this article, and the second two, along with our personal experience, in next week’s.)

One method of homeschooling is to buy a curriculum and use it through the homeschool years.  There are several written for homeschoolers and others written for classroom use.   An extreme version of this is online learning.

Advantages:  Parents need to make very few decisions once they have decided on a curriculum.  Teacher’s manuals are usually available and give both answers and background knowledge, allowing parents to teach subjects they originally knew very little about.  Most formal curricula, especially those designed for schools, cover the subject matter thoroughly, leaving very few gaps in subject matter.  Curricula designed by homeschooling parents often give detailed guidelines to enhance flexibility.  Formal grade assignment is usually quite straightforward.

Disadvantages:  This is one of the most expensive ways of homeschooling.  It is also very inflexible.  Curricula designed for classrooms are often full of busy-work and often contain too much material for each year.  Full curricula designed by homeschooling parents are not always authoritative.  Home educators outside the US will find it difficult to adapt some of these curricula to their country’s history, culture, and literature.  And children may feel stifled and lose their love of learning if they have no opportunity to pursue their own interests.  Furthermore, content gaps will most likely occur if one switches between curriculum providers.

We can also follow scope and sequence outlines as our main curriculumAmbleside Online has outlined a beautiful free K-12 curriculum guide based on Charlotte Mason’s philosophy of education.  The Well Trained Mind does something similar for families interested in Classical Education, although its schedule and scope could be considered too intense for most children.  There are many other scopes and sequences available, from curriculum suppliers, from some encyclopaedias, and from many educational organizations.  In my experience, most government scope and sequence documents are too vague to be of much practical use, although the US Core Standards are supposed to overcome this problem.

Advantages:  There is a broad and complete outline of all that a student should learn, often with connections between subjects in each grade.  This encourages organized and systematic learning and minimizes gaps in learning.

Disadvantages:  In many of these cases, parents need to know enough about the material to discuss it with their students, and few of us have the background to do that.  Many of the prepared curricula mentioned above contain these elements in their teacher’s guides; outlines rarely do.  Formal grade assignment is often difficult.

Next week I plan to discuss the second two broad styles of homeschooling, along with our personal experience and discoveries.

For more homeschooling encouragement see Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 Tuesday, Tell it to Me Tuesday, Finishing Strong, and Trivium Tuesdays.

Disclosure: Although I mention several resources in this discussion, I am not compensated for doing so nor do I endorse them wholeheartedly.