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Review: Prayers that Changed History by Tricia Goyer

Prayers that changed history

Tricia Goyer, homeschooling mother of many, wrote this unique devotional church history book to teach children about prayer and to encourage them to pray.  She focuses on historical characters whose prayers had wide ranging and long lasting effects, and her refrain is, “And history was forever changed.”

There are various aspects to this book.  Children—and their parents—will learn about heroes of the faith, from Polycarp, Oswald of Northumbria, and Governor William Bradford to Mary Jones, Amy Carmichael, and Dietrich Bonhoeffer.  Their stories, greatly simplified and somewhat sanitized, are presented in an age-appropriate way.

Each chapter includes the person’s story and significance, a prayer by or about him or her, a related Bible passage, and applications to the reader’s own life.  Thus the reader is inspired by prayers of God’s people, by Bible stories, and by Tricia’s encouraging discussions.  These discussions are, on the whole, well-done. Tricia is careful to write so generally that she avoids most areas of theological conflict, so this book can be used profitably by children of most Protestant Christian backgrounds.

So often stories of great Christians involve horrifying suffering that children (and many others) do not need to be exposed to in detail.   Tricia, herself a mom, understands that better than many writers of such mini-biography collections, and this is one of the things I really appreciate about this book.  Rather than being gloomy and discouraging, it is upbeat and tells of God’s power and goodness in history.

Prayers that Changed History reminded me of things that I knew about prayer, life, and parenting that had slipped my mind during a time of stress, important truths like, “The more we pray with a right heart, the more we are changed.” May God bless Tricia for her dedication to writing books that surround us and our children with truth and point us back to the Bible and God’s goodness.

Consistently encouraging, very occasionally a bit scattered, and eagerly pointing to Jesus, this is a book that will benefit children as well as the parents who go through it with them.  It is obviously more than a book of mini-biographies and more than a devotional, and the two aspects enhance each other.  I recommend it as a devotional, a church history text, a Bible study book, or even a unique approach to history class; because of the various sections in each chapter, the emphasis can easily be changed depending on your goals for the book.

Prayers that Changed History is a worthwhile addition to homes, church libraries, and homeschool libraries.  If you can get it into your public library, you will be blessing unknown children and maybe their families as well.

How does this book compare with other church history mini-biographies?

Prayers that Changed History by Tricia Goyer:  slightly sanitized stories of faith, prayer, and God’s actions in the world; suitable for children and encouraging for everyone.

Simonetta Carr’s series Christian Biographies for Young People:  gorgeous pictures, detailed but child-appropriate history, moral applications; written for children but inspiring for all ages.

Trial and Triumph by Richard Hannula:  detailed stories, emphasis on martyrs, does not gloss over torture and martyrdom; suitable for most teens and adults, but perhaps overwhelming for some.

Saints and Scoundrels by Robin Phillips:  moral applications, challenging study questions, detailed descriptions of violence; for older teens and adults.

This is yet another book in the in the 52 Books in 52 Weeks Challenge and is also linked to Saturday Reviews, Booknificent Thursdays, Literacy Musings Monday, What to Read Wednesdays and The Book Nook.  For more encouragement see Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 Tuesday, Tell it to Me Tuesday, and Finishing Strong. Trivium Tuesday

Disclosure: I received a review copy of this book and, as usual, am not compensated for this review. 

Winter, Homeschooling without Mom, and a Family Reunion (Weeks 21 and 22)

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Rain after the snowstorm

This past week we had some real winter in Ontario, with temperatures down to -30 C and half a meter of snow—except on the roof where it took my husband two hours to clear away drifts that were a full meter high.  I, however, was at a family reunion on the prairies and missed it all most happily.

The last time I went away for most of a week, homeschooling consisted of watching the winter Olympics and maxing out our internet plan.  This time, however, our university students were at home and each supervised a younger sibling.  My husband moved his study into the living room to be available, too.  As a result, the learning continued and even improved, with Miss 13 actually getting proper lectures in math from an enthusiastic math major!

So the girls worked hard and continued with all their basic book learning, although the assigned hour of reading did get skipped the days I was away.    On the other hand, there was lots of snow shovelling, as well as laundry and cooking to do, and when I got back we made curtains.

And out on the prairies, I had a lovely time with all my siblings, most of their spouses, my parents and in-laws, and most of my nieces and nephews, celebrating a birthday, talking, laughing, eating, visiting a museum, walking in the frigid prairie wind, going to church, watching determined little ones learn snowboarding, and doing a creek scavenger hunt (i.e. photograph all the creeks in a long drive on country roads).

As for reading, I did not do much, just like the girls.  On the plane I whizzed through The Happy Christian, which I will be studying with friends, and I also read The Peaceful Wife and Christians Get Depressed Too.  I’m still working on Prayers that Changed History, Bonding with Your Teen Through Boundaries, and, for school, the lovely Zondervan Atlas of the Bible, The Gift of Music, and The Children’s Homer (again).

We were reading Dune Boy out loud before I left, but then I lost my voice (perhaps partially due to reading aloud too much), so the girls finished it on their own.  In our Bible reading together we finished Nehemiah and are back into Jeremiah, and my husband got to Ephesians during family mealtimes.  On my own I read Psalms, and—it’s funny—I’m just a dozen or so Psalms behind where my parents are reading at mealtimes.  Somehow going through them twice in such a short space of time adds to my understanding.

As for useful links, there was very little access to the internet while I was away, but before I left I did see this map of learning theories.  Surprisingly, it doesn’t include Charlotte Mason’s insights (although it does include John Holt’s), but that may be because her ideas were largely confined to Britain until the modern homeschooling movement started, if I understand correctly.  In any case, it’s interesting to reflect on some of the current learning theories and compare them to what we are doing in our individual homes.

And here’s a very useful tip to maximize brain work simply by scheduling appropriate breaksHere I discussed how I’ve been applying this idea for years.

This post is linked to Kris’s Weekly Wrap Up and Finishing Strong.

Review: The Mouse on Wall Street by Leonard Wibberley

The Mouse on Wall Street

Do you want an enjoyable way to introduce your teens to economics? We started with The Mouse on Wall Street by Leonard Wibberley, and it has been very successful.

For centuries the people of Grand Fenwick had produced their renowned wine, Pinot Grand Fenwick, and their wool.  Since defeating the United States in war, a story told in The Mouse that Roared, the tiny country enjoyed a stable economy, happy people, and a secure future.

Now, however, they faced a threat of unimagined consequences.  The Pinot Grand Fenwick chewing gum company that became theirs as part of the spoils of war, made a profit of one million dollars, the equivalent of the entire national budget!  The Count of Mountjoy, her Grace Duchess Gloriana XII’s loyal prime minster, saw the danger and did not want to give this wealth to the people of Grand Fenwick.  He was certain it would hurt them.  However, he was defeated by the Labor leader, Mr. Bentner, who divided up the money among the people and expected all of their problems to be solved.  Instead, they faced greater difficulties than their nation had ever known before, difficulties predicted by Mountjoy and understood only too late by Bentner.

When the next cheque came in, neither politician, and not even the people, wanted to accept the Gum Money.  How they dealt with it—and how that nearly devastated the United States and the whole world—makes for fascinating reading.  We laughed often, and we also learned about finance, economics, and world history during the 50’s and 60’s.

Of course, none of us caught each reference and Mr. 20, who studies finance at university, enjoyed it more than the rest of us, but each of us found it to be a completely satisfying book. As Miss 15 sighed happily when we finished it, “This is the best book ever.”

The Mouse on Wall Street quotes I love:  (Note that these are not the essence of the book and, perhaps, say more about me than about the book, for it is not overtly Christian and rarely mentions God and faith.)

“Time,” his father had often told him, “dissolves most crises.  If you will examine the history of the world you will find that the greatest disasters have always resulted from hasty decisions. Furthermore, if God took seven days in which to make the world, you will never be blamed for taking three weeks to answer a letter.  In that time you will often find the urgency has disappeared and no action at all is required on your part.” p 15

“They felt that in a world where belief in God was weakening there had always been the dollar.  And now the dollar was going because it was, after all, just a piece of paper.”  p 152 (Or, in terms of modern science one could say, “They felt that in a world where a belief in God was weakening there had always been evolution.  And now evolution was going because it was, after all, just a vain attempt to eliminate God.”)

“In essence, money is an act of faith….It is nothing more than belief.” p 152

Recommended for homeschooled high school students as an introduction to economics and recent history as well as for pure enjoyment.  In our family it was a successful read aloud.

The Mouse on Wall Street is the third of Leonard Wibberley’s Grand Fenwick books that we have read aloud and each of them has been a hit.  In each case we laughed a lot, guessed vainly at the plot, and hugely enjoyed all the wry commentary sprinkled throughout the books.  Other books in this series that we can recommend, both for their humor and their insight into recent history:

The Mouse that Roared:  Grand Fenwick, a tiny country on the boarder of France, attacks the United States and wins.  (A funny movie of the same title is often available on YouTube although, as expected, it is not entirely true to the book.)

The Mouse on the Moon:  When Duchess Gloriana XII, who is normally quite frugal, requests a Russian sable fur coat, her prime minister sets in motion events that end up affecting the space race in a side-splitting way.

This is yet another book in the in the 52 Books in 52 Weeks Challenge and is also linked to Saturday Reviews, Booknificent Thursdays, Literacy Musings Monday, What to Read Wednesdays and The Book Nook.  For more encouragement see Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 Tuesday.

Disclosure: We borrowed this book from our library via interlibrary loan.

Things to Think About this Valentine’s Day

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Relationships are complicated.  The more I read, the more I find out just how amazing the connection between people can be.  Did you know that if you watch a loved one eat, for example, or see him look sad, the eating or sad parts of your brain are activated?  Did you know that if you are in a close relationship with someone, that person’s emotions can affect you physically?  Did you know that connected people’s brains mirror each other’s emotions?

Truly, these discoveries put a whole new spin on the idea of marriage, don’t they?

But they don’t change how it works.  God’s way of doing marriage is still the best.  After all, he designed us as well as all the miracles that we keep on discovering about ourselves and our relationships.

With that in mind, I want to re-share some helpful marriage resources.  May this Valentine’s Day be a time for each of us to learn more about how God wants us to live in our marriages.

Here is an annotated list of Nine Helpful Marriage Books which I highly recommend you check out.  My recent review of The Peaceful Wife could also be helpful, especially if you are stressed about your marriage and responsibilities or if your husband seems passive, unplugged, or frequently frustrated.

And here are links to other posts I have written for Valentine’s Day.  Some of them I still find helpful, and I pray that you may as well.

Finally, as I wrote a few  years ago, let’s take a moment to push aside the pink and red decorations of this week and focus on what God says about love for each day of our lives:

Love is patient and kind;

love is not jealous or boastful;

it is not arrogant or rude.

Love does not insist on its own way;

it is not irritable or resentful;

it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the   right.

Love bears all things, believes   all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Cor 13:4-7)

Review: The Peaceful Wife by April Cassidy

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When April Cassidy, a driven, perfectionistic, controlling type A person, got married, she didn’t realize that the very qualities that led to her success in the workplace were a handicap in her marriage.  In The Peaceful Wife she shares what it took her years of misery to find out:  how to apply the biblical view of marriage in real life.

April discusses many things, always beginning with and returning to the idea of respect.  Wives are commanded to respect their husbands, and April’s goal in this book is to show what disrespect includes, what respect actually means to a man, and how a wife can learn to change so that she respects her husband in ways he can appreciate.

This is crucial because, it turns out, even those of us who think we are genuinely respecting our husbands actually communicate the opposite more often than we would guess.  I just realized yesterday (after almost 27 years of marriage!) that a sudden intake of breath during a scary driving manoeuver is interpreted as a lack of confidence and respect!  Ouch!  Without April’s detailed discussion, I would not have heard these emotions behind the words, just as I haven’t heard them for all these years.

April’s book is full of detailed lists, step by step discussions of what repentance means, how to apologize, how to change, and so much more.  It is, by April’s own admission, written from her point of view of being a bossy, take-charge wife and it may not apply to everyone.  Yet, as I noticed in yesterday’s driving incident, even those of us who are quieter and less controlling can learn from the book.

What is refreshingly different about The Peaceful Wife, however, is how April links being a peaceful wife to understanding the whole Bible, not just the marriage parts.  She found that believing in God’s control over everything enabled her to become peaceful in her relationship with God and with her husband.  She also points out that without regular Bible reading and prayer we cannot change or even see that we need to change.

April teaches practical aspects of moving from disrespect to respect, gives examples of respect in common situations, and discusses how to deal with serious disagreements while still acting respectfully.  Over and over she points the reader to God’s Word, emphasizing that unless God is first in a woman’s life she cannot be the wife she is called to be.

The Peaceful Wife is April’s own story as well as that of her husband Greg but also includes letters from the readers of her Peaceful Wife blog.  Although a variety of situations, personalities, and backgrounds are represented, a reader really only needs to find a few applicable suggestions for this book to add value to her life and marriage.

Do you need this book?  If you are stressed about your marriage or your responsibilities, yes.  You might be taking on burdens that are not yours to bear.  If your husband seems passive and unplugged or has sudden outbursts of frustration, again the answer is ‘yes’.   Perhaps something you’re doing comes across as disrespectful to him.  It is worth looking at this book to find out.

I myself did not think I needed The Peaceful Wife and only accepted the offer of a review copy to help people who had asked us for marriage advice.  It turns out, however, that I did need the book, and I thank God for showing me that what seems like perfectly appropriate behavior on my part may come across as demeaning, discouraging, or disrespectful to my husband.

This is yet another book in the in the 52 Books in 52 Weeks Challenge and is also linked to Saturday Reviews, Booknificent Thursdays, Literacy Musings Monday, What to Read Wednesdays and The Book Nook.  For more encouragement see Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 Tuesday, Tell it to Me Tuesday.

Disclosure: I received a review copy of this book from Kregel and have presented my own opinions.