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Nurturing a Love of Learning

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People sometimes ask, “How do you instill a love of learning in your child?”

I think that’s the wrong question.  Children are naturally curious and eager to learn, and God has instilled this in them; we don’t need to.  Instead, the question should be, “How do we nurture this love of learning?” And, if for some reason it has left them, we need to ask, “How can we help them recover their love of learning?”

Here are some of the things that have kept our children and teens learning almost constantly for more than two decades. Do note, however, that this love of learning has nothing to do with textbooks, in most instances.  In fact, my kids agree that less formal schoolwork is one of the most important ingredients in encouraging a love of learning.  On the other hand, they have also gained a lot of new interests from their rigorous formal studies.

So here’s how we have tried to nurture the love of learning throughout the years. Of course, we do not always achieve all of these goals, but when we do the learning is amazing.

  • Limits on screen time.
  • Lots of classical music.
  • Enough free time for curiosity and boredom, although sometimes formal learning gets in the way of this.
  • Lots of good books and very few low quality ones.
  • Very little formal schoolwork at an early age.
  • Encouragement to stretch beyond their comfort zones, especially when they are older.
  • Ample scope for initiatives, mistakes, and messes.
  • Responsibility and freedom, within reason.
  • Lots of physical activity.
  • Lots of time in nature.
  • Many kid-directed free time activities, and few mommy-directed ones.
  • Freedom to explore their own interests with suitable mentors.
  • The example of parents who are constantly learning new things.
  • Adequate sleep, nutritious food, exercise.
  • Meaningful chores.
  • Field trips, documentaries.
  • Conversation and time with a variety of interesting adults.
  • Volunteer work and paid work.

In fact, I would sum up the whole idea of nurturing a love of learning in your children with a quotation from Charlotte Mason.

“We spread an abundant … feast … and each small guest assimilates what he can.”

And then, as one of my children pointed out years ago, “Learning is the reward.”

This is based on a blog post I wrote 5 years ago; very little has changed in how we try to nurture a love of learning.

LifeTOUR in Ottawa

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Last Saturday night in Ottawa, LifeTOUR presented a compelling case for protecting preborn children. Despite an exhausting traveling schedule and very little sleep, the three speakers were able to engage the audience, and at least one person who arrived pro-choice became pro-life when she realized what ‘choice’ actually involved.

First Andre Schutten of ARPA Canada presented the legal history of abortion in Canada, reminding us that the preborn are complete, unique, living human beings. He also pointed out how important it is to accept that they are legally persons. History shows that when a class of human beings is denied the legal rights of personhood, dreadful things can happen, the most chilling examples being that of blacks in the Southern US and Jews in Nazi Germany.

Next Maaike Rosendal of the Canadian Center for Bioethical Reform discussed the effectiveness of using graphic photography of abortion victims. These images are unsettling, as was her detailed description of certain forms of abortion. But Maaike did not apologize for exposing these horrors, pointing out that, ‘It isn’t tragic when women see these pictures; it is tragic when they do not see them soon enough.’ Sharing her experiences while displaying these photos throughout North America, she spoke about the effectiveness of engaging the culture by telling truth in love. It is all, she said, about eliminating suffering without killing sufferers, and it was evident that she is full of compassion for everyone involved.

Finally Mike Schouten of We Need A Law presented the three aspects of the current Canadian abortion situation that the majority of Canadians feel very strongly about:

  • Late and full-term abortions, which are currently allowed in Canada.
  • Sex selection abortions, which are currently allowed in Canada.
  • Legal protection for unborn victims of crime, which currently does not exist in Canada.

He also discussed what the average individual can do to make a difference.

Is the LifeTOUR presentation effective? Yes, when facts are presented with compassion, people change. This has been shown over and over. So, if at all possible, attend a LifeTour meeting when it arrives in a community near you. Advertise the meeting. Take along some pro-choice friends. Learn the facts so you will be able to share them.

For resources to help you talk about these issues, write letters to the editor, or otherwise catalyze change, see the LifeTour website.

Please pray for the LifeTOUR team, that they may remember that ‘the Lord is near’ and experience what that means. For them, and for us all, this was explained beautifully in a sermon on Philippians 4:4-7.

Note: If you have had an abortion and regret it, or if you face a difficult pregnancy and are considering an abortion, please visit one of the many pregnancy distress centers for compassionate and practical support. To find these centers, Google ‘pregnancy distress’ and the name of a nearby city. Help is available, and there are people who care.

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Some of my other articles on this topic:

Disclosure:  I do not work for any of the organizations mentioned, am not compensated for this blog post, and have expressed my own opinions.

Review: Death in Florence by Paul Strathern

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Over 500 years ago in Florence lived two men who exemplified the struggle between ‘progressive materialism and the rule of spirituality,’ Lorenzo de Medici and Savonarola. Of course, in some aspects this struggle has been an intrinsic part of the human condition since Cain and Abel, but in Death in Florence Paul Strathern focuses on the beginning of the modern age.

Florence, a republic in which citizens nominally had a say in the government, was actually carefully managed by Lorenzo de Medici. This brilliant, cultured, and highly ambitious ruler believed that the de Medici fortunes were so closely linked to those of Florence that what was good for one was good for the other. Although this may have been correct, it led to behavior that began to drive a wedge between Florence and the de Medici family.

Savonarola, on the other hand, expressed his concern for the city of Florence in powerful sermons denouncing the sin that flourished everywhere. After Lorenzo’s death Savonarola’s sermons became more passionate and he became personally involved in city politics. This eventually backfired just as Lorenzo’s efforts did.

Now, here’s the interesting point of Death in Florence: Strathern maintains that these two men made a pact at Lorenzo’s death bed despite their radically different outlooks on life. He believes that Lorenzo asked Savonarola to back the succession of his son Piero and that Savonarola agreed in order to increase his own power over the city.

Strathern makes a good case for this and shows how, amidst the extreme corruption of Pope Alexander VI, economic and other disasters in Florence (such as plague, weather), political scheming and betrayal in Italy and beyond, and the controversy about Florentine morality, the effects of the pact played out in revolting earnest.

Savonarola struggled to preserve Florence both politically and spiritually and gained a huge following. The weakened Medici family and others sought political power. The pope as well as secular rulers wanted to gain control over Florence. Many of those involved in the various governments of Florence tried to balance the opposing forces to preserve their city but their efforts were in vain.  In all these aspects, Florence was also a clear indication of what the world was about to become.

Despite painstaking research into the affairs of Florence, the de Medici, and Savonarola, Strathern is hampered by understanding neither the religious spirit of the age nor the relationships possible between intellectual activity and faith.  Although Strathern respects and defends both Lorenzo and Savonarola, his whole book is written with the arrogance of one who imagines himself to be further evolved. Full of judgement, snobbish opinions, and—at least in matters I know well—errors in fact and understanding, Death in Florence assumes these times were about struggle between an evolutionist ‘progressive materialism’ and religion, as though Savonarola were a representative example of religion.

Be that as it may, Death in Florence is a complex and important book, mostly well-written (although in one section I almost lost interest and indications were that the author and editor had as well, at least in the advanced reading copy), and it will certainly be of interest to many. However, I would not recommend it for youth, both because of its complexity and its unstated assumptions. Older teens and adults will find it enlightening on two levels: a deeper understanding of the beginnings of the modern world, and a peek into the thought processes of one who consistently applies his faith in materialist evolution.

In terms of homeschooling, this is a good book for parents to read while teaching about Renaissance times in history, art, politics, or church history. For example, 12 of the 14 representatives of the Renaissance in Famous Men of the Renaissance and Reformation appear in Death in Florence.

If that one substandard section mentioned above has been improved in the final version of the book, I would not be surprised if Death in Florence were to be nominated for some major prize due to its vitally important subject matter, painstaking research, lively writing, and politically correct point of view.

This is yet another book in the in the 2015 52 Books in 52 Weeks Challenge and is also linked to Saturday Reviews, Booknificent Thursdays, Literacy Musings Monday, and The Book Nook

For more homeschool encouragement, visit Trivium Tuesdays, Finishing Strong.  

Disclosure: An advance reading copy was provided by Pegasus Books.

Our Outer Nature Wastes Away

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We all know that we are on a journey to decrepitude and death, but at times it hits home very hard.

The other day one of my dearest people told me it’s official; her mind is going. She couldn’t even remember the words for it, Alzheimer’s, dementia. Yes, sometimes thinking about the future makes her cry, she said. But then she reminded me simply of her comfort, that God is with her through it all.

The next day, still overwhelmed, I read this quotation from Joni Eareckson Tada,

“Did you lose your health? Your eyesight? Your hearing? Have you lost a loved one? Do the memories still give you pain?

Stop for a moment and let those memories point you to the future. Do not pine for what once was, but long for the future.

As a Christian you have everything to look forward to, and every day it comes closer. The next time you long despairingly for the past, stop and count the years. Maybe you are already closer to the future than you think.”

Yes, this is true and it might encourage her.

But it made me cry, this thought that she may be nearer to the future than we think.

There are so many other dear people who suffer, too. Probably you know some of them, or even many. Perhaps you are one of them yourself. In fact, unless Jesus returns soon we will all become part of that enormous crowd that has suffered and died.

Yet, together with the apostle Paul we can all say these words, for our loved ones and ourselves:

So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.” (2 Corinthians 4:16—and it’s worth reading the rest of the passage as well.)

May God be with all those who are ill, all those who are dying, all those who mourn. May he keep them, and each of us, close to him.

Amen.

If you are struggling, perhaps A Prayer for a Loved One in Distress may encourage you.

Note: The Joni quotation from the Dutch blog Kostbaar has undergone two translations, so it is probably not exactly what Joni originally said.

For more encouragement, visit Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 TuesdayR&R Wednesdays.

The Four Levels of Reading, Summarized for High School

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Besides the Bible, How to Read a Book  by Adler and Van Doren (link is to my review) has been the foundational book of our high school at home program. It is an intense volume that teaches readers how get the most out of any book they read, as well as how to decide which few of the millions of available books are worth the effort.

As both a homeschooler and a reviewer, I dip into this book regularly, and recently I took some notes on the levels of reading most relevant to high school students.

The First Level of Reading: Elementary Reading

– the reading normally learned in elementary school, and also the level that remedial college reading classes often address. This is foundational, and any student who does not read fluently should focus on mastering this skill.

The Second Level of Reading: Inspectional Reading

-the art of skimming systematically to get as much as possible out of a book in a given amount of time, to learn everything that the surface alone can teach you. Most people do not realize the value of such inspectional reading, and “are thus faced with the task of achieving a superficial knowledge of the book at the same time that they are trying to understand it.” p 19

-two aspects:

Inspectional Reading 1: Systematic Skimming or Pre-reading, in which you have a limited time to decide if you want to read the book

  1. Look at the title page and the preface.
  2. Study the table of contents.
  3. Check the index to see crucial terms and look up passages containing them.
  4. Read the publisher’s blurb on the dust jacket.
  5. Look at the chapters that seem to be pivotal to the argument.
  6. Turn the pages, dipping in here and there, reading a paragraph or two, sometimes several pages in sequence, never more than that.

Note: When I’m deciding whether or not to read or assign a book, I usually first check out online reviews (GoodReads, Amazon, specific reviewers).  If I have the book already, I usually start with the conclusion, and then move to the Table of Contents and the introductions to sections of chapters if there are any. If, before trusting the author’s judgement, I want to see what kind of research he or she has done, I begin with the bibliography, acknowledgements, and footnotes. Because of decades of practice, I usually know before steps 5 and 6 above whether or not I will want to read the book.

Inspectional Reading 2: Superficial Reading

“In tackling a difficult book for the first time, read it through without ever stopping to look up or ponder the things you do not understand right away.” If you go to the dictionary or other secondary sources prematurely, you will only be impeding your reading instead of helping it along. In fact, in your effort to master the fine points prematurely, you will miss the big points that the author is making (miss the forest for the trees) p 38.

Note: This is especially relevant when studying something like Shakespeare: first read an outline of the play, then watch it, and only after that begin the detailed study, as discussed here and in the comments here.

The Third Level of Reading: Analytical Reading

-thorough reading, the best you can do; an intensely active process that is complex, systematic, and, I would say, deliberate. “Reading a book analytically is chewing and digesting it… and is preeminently for the sake of understanding.” p19

Note: Most books are not worth this much effort, so choose carefully.

Stage 1, Rules for Finding What a Book is About:

  1. Classify the book according to kind and subject matter
  2. State what the whole book is about with the utmost brevity.
  3. Enumerate its major parts in their order and relation, and outline these parts as you have outlined the whole.
  4. Define the problem or problems the author is trying to solve. p 95

Stage 2, Rules for Finding What a Book Says (Interpreting its Contents)

  1. Come to terms with the author by interpreting his key words
  2. Grasp the author’s leading propositions by dealing with his most important sentences.
  3. Know the author’s arguments, by finding them in, or constructing them out of, sequences of sentences.
  4. Determine which of his problems the author has solved, and which he has not; and as to the latter, decide which the author knew he had failed to solve.

Stage 3, Rules for Criticizing a Book as a Communication of Knowledge

A.General Maxims of Intellectual Etiquette

  1. Do not begin criticism until you have completed your outline and your interpretation of the book. (Do not say you agree, disagree, or suspend judgement, until you can say, “I understand.”
  2. Do not disagree disputatiously or contentiously.
  3. Demonstrate you recognize the difference between knowledge and mere personal opinion by presenting good reasons for any critical judgement you make.

B.Special Criteria for Points of Criticism

  1. Show wherein the author is uninformed.
  2. Show wherein the author is misinformed.
  3. Show wherein the author is illogical.
  4. Show wherein the author’s analysis or account is incomplete.

The Fourth Level of Reading: Syntopical Reading

-comparative reading in which one reads many books on a topic, compares them, and constructs “…an analysis of the topic that may not be in any of the books.” p 20

Note: This level is beyond many high school students but is very worthwhile for any older teen or adult to learn.  I may write detailed notes on it later.

Of course, in its 400+ pages How to Read a Book contains an enormous amount of explanation of these points and also applies them to various different kinds of reading. I highly recommend the book for high school students and anyone else who learns from books, and  hope that these notes encourage you to study the book.

For a detailed discussion of how we use it in our homeschool, read my review .

This is linked to Saturday Reviews, Booknificent Thursdays, Literacy Musings Monday, and The Book Nook

For more encouragement, visit Finishing StrongTrivium Tuesdays, Raising Homemakers, Titus 2 TuesdayR&R Wednesdays.

Disclosure: I bought this book second hand many years ago.  I am not compensated for this post in any way and have provided my own honest opinion.