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Review: The First Love by Beverly Lewis


The First Love by Beverly Lewis

Maggie Esh, sixteen, is ill and spends most of her days in pain and fatigue, wishing she could contribute more to the family and hoping that someday she will be well enough to become a wife and mother. Yet she is cheerful, diligently trying to understand how to be content and knowing that her sovereign and loving God is in charge even of her illness.  Maggie’s supportive family accepts her limitations and Rachel, her sweet new stepmom, does her best to understand her.

Thus Maggie’s life meanders on, through good days and bad.  She attends a revival meeting with Cousin Lily where she meets the preacher’s son, Glenn, who used to be ill as well.  She goes to singings and other church gatherings where kind Jimmy acts confusingly. She discovers the Bible’s stories of healing and comfort.  She tries new vitamin supplements….

The First Love is stepmom Rachel’s story as well, as she gets to know her new husband and tries to connect with his children, and it is younger brother Leroy’s story, too, as he struggles to accept his stepmother.

Although this is a pleasant and uplifting novel for all, it was especially moving for me to watch Maggie, Rachel, and their family struggle with illness in a way that our family is so familiar with.

The First Love confirms what I’ve often said, that suffering well is something we need to learn. One of the best ways to learn is by watching someone else suffer in a godly way, seeking the Healer more than healing itself.  This book provides such an example and will help people, whether they suffer, support sufferers, or are currently doing well.

Fundamentally, though, The First Love by Beverly Lewis is a sweet novel that will add joy, a touch of Amish romance, and some gentle nudges toward godliness to a few relaxing hours.

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Disclosure: This book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc. and is available at your favorite bookseller from Bethany House, a division of Baker Publishing Group.

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Gift Guide

A perfect gift for little girls.

At this time of year I often hear, “Are you ready for Christmas?”  Yes, my heart is, but that’s not what people mean.  They wonder if I have bought all the gifts I plan to get.

And, no, I have not.  Life is busy.  People get ill and people die.  Energy is used up by everyday tasks.  In fact, so far I have bought only three gifts and have barely thought about decorating.  But that’s OK; there is still time.

How about you?  Is your heart ready for Christmas?  Is everything else ready?

Brandy Vencel of Afterthoughts shared this perspective in her newsletter,

“…at Christmas, we are giving happiness more than anything else. If we truly believe that at Christmas our salvation took on flesh, we have great reason to rejoice, regardless of circumstances. So then all the material components — gifts, decorations, food, etc. — take on a different light. They are an outpouring of the great happiness our Lord has made possible.”

With that in mind, I am gathering up the energy needed to spread that ‘great happiness that the Lord has made possible.’ Perhaps you may want to comb through my old articles with me, looking for last minute gift ideas.

We could find a new read aloud that everyone, from little ones to teens, will enjoy.  Here’s a list of our family’s Top Twenty Books to Read Aloud, and here is the Rainey List of Best Books for Children from a Christian homeschooling dad who is a librarian.  If you have younger children, you may want to find a book for them to read during the Read Aloud Challenge in January. It is hard to find books for my family, partly because our library already has most of the books we would want to read, and partially because reading week was only last month, so giving books won’t work for me. However, finding another good one to read aloud would. (Any suggestions?)

This year I’ve learned more about the negative effects of screens.  Don’t give screens to little ones, and think several times before giving them to older kids.  There are too many educational disadvantages and too many mental health risks.  Most screens are outside my price range so it’s not something I need to worry about, but I know some parents give them to benefit their kids, not knowing their disadvantages and risks.  Read these links if that’s you, and think twice.

And finally here’s my enormous list of educational gifts with frugal options.  It’s so full of ideas that work, whether one wants an educational gift or not!  This is the list I’m really going through for my family as I compare it with their wish lists.

When it really gets down to it, to give gifts we just need to know the person and what really matters to them.  Then it is easy to spread the happiness of Christmas to those who love the Lord; those who don’t will miss out on a lot of the joy but will perhaps find some in their gifts.

May God be merciful to us all this Christmas season and fill us and our loved ones with true joy.

Mostly Canticles by George van Popta


After being rescued from grave danger, David sang, “Glorify the Lord with me; let us exalt his name together.” (Ps 34:3)  Throughout the Bible we are encouraged to praise God in times of joy, trust, confusion, understanding, sadness, and despair.  We pray while we sing and sing while we pray and, obviously, the words that we use matter. The more carefully our songs are based on the Bible, the more we will ‘be transformed by the renewing of our minds,’ the better we will glorify God, and the more fittingly we will encourage each other.

In Mostly Canticles, Second Edition the Rev. George van Popta gives us 54 beautiful Bible-based songs that we can use to praise God and to ‘address one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.’  The current collection contains 33 canticles, songs based directly Bible passages from both the Old and New Testaments.  There are also 21 hymns based on biblical themes.   A few Psalms are included among the canticles, but they are different from the rigorously text-based New Genevan Psalter that van Popta edited recently. (link to my article)

The canticles include the songs of Moses, Miriam, Hannah, Hezekiah, and the angels at Bethlehem; the prayers of Jonah and Jehosaphat; and selections from Isaiah, the gospels, and Revelation.  Of special note are a series of four canticles based on Isaiah’s passages about Christ as the chosen, commissioned, obedient, and risen Servant, and a series of seven canticles about Christ’s messages to the seven churches in Revelation.  The versification of Psalm 119 as an acrostic (in each verse all the lines begin with the same letter of the alphabet, just as David originally wrote it in Hebrew) is an astonishing technical tour de force as well as a grateful celebration of God’s law.

Fulfill to me the promise that you made
For then will I have answers for my taunters.
Forsake me never but give me your word.
Forever will I walk before my Saviour.
Fearlessly will I speak before the kings
Flinging wide open hands in love and worship.

In faithfulness you dealt so well with me.
Instruct me in your knowledge all-surpassing.
I went astray before you punished me.
It was to teach me, that I was afflicted.
Is not your law worth more to me than gold?
Indeed, I value it beyond all measure.

Remarkable are all your holy laws
Revealed by you to give us understanding.
Return to me and all who love your name.
Rule over me that I may walk uprightly.
Redeem me from the ways of evil men.
Rivers of tears I shed for man’s so sinful. (melody

The hymns in Mostly Canticles, based on Bible sections, biblical themes, liturgical forms, and historic hymns, include songs of joyful praise, heartfelt prayer, and deep penitence.   There are songs about Creation, the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus’ sufferings and glory, baptism, communion, the Ten Commandments, and more.  Here is one example:

Great care has been taken to pair appropriate melodies with the words.  Sometimes van Popta chose the evocative Genevan tunes usually used for the Psalms.  Often he used historic or well-known hymn melodies, such as the tune of “Abide with Me” for the communion hymn “Merciful God and Father of Our Lord.”  And occasionally he used classical music selections, as in the moving combination of Beethoven and parts of Psalm 38 given below.  A few songs were specifically composed by the late Christiaan J. Nobels.  In each case the words and music blend together, often by the mood of the melody itself, sometimes by its associations with other words.

George van Popta is a retired pastor who writes in the Reformed tradition but Mostly Canticles will bless all Bible-believing Christians, just as both Catholics and Protestants enthusiastically sang the protestant Genevan Psalms during the Reformation.

Mostly Canticles can be used for personal praise, communal singing, and teaching (the index of Scripture references makes it easy to find songs written on specific texts or themes).  I have even heard “I Will Praise You, Lord, My Savior” performed in concert, and it often fills my heart during dark sleepless hours.

I will praise you, Lord, my Savior, for you are so good to me.
You have shown to me your favor, and have made your anger flee.
I am filled with consolation; surely God is my salvation.
No more will I be afraid. I trust him, my only aid. (melody)

Although you can find these songs online at Mostly Canticles, it is worth buying the ring-bound soft cover book for convenience in browsing, singing, and accompanying.  If you purchase the book you also support Christian education, since all proceeds go to the tiny Ambassador’s Christian School.

For more information about Mostly Canticles or to purchase, please see the website.

Related articles:

Introducing the New Genevan Psalter

Thoughts on Finding God in the Hard Times by Matt and Beth Redman

Then Sings My Soul:  150 Christmas, Easter, and All-Time Favorite Hymn Stories by Robert Morgan

The Poetic Wonder of Isaac Watts by Douglas Bond

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Disclosure: I received a review copy of Mostly Canticles from the author.

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Reading Week


Every fall we take a week off from regular schoolwork and focus on books.  This is a rest and a reward for the fall’s hard work.  It is also a huge game changer educationally, as we take time to explore new ideas.

This year we were sick during reading week but even so it was very good.

We had some books for nostalgia and pure relaxation, like Swallows and Amazons, Freddy the Pig, and Asterix.  We looked at picture books, like Anno’s culture books (ideal for classical education), Jill Barklem’s amazing Brambly Hedge series, Bill Peet’s zany stories, and art books. We read fiction as well as science, psychology, homesteading, health, organizing, statistics, motivation, and art.  (In the past I would have been reading aloud as well—we have enjoyed so many excellent books together including these Top 20 Family Read Alouds.)

It can be a transforming opportunity for kids to have no learning responsibilities except reading for a whole week. For teens, it is a chance to explore possibilities for the future.  As Cal Newport points out in How to Be a High School Superstar, it is crucial to take time to explore and develop new interests.  And even if this particular reading week does not spark any new interests, it is still a special time to anticipate, enjoy, and remember.

Not that reading week is necessarily restful.  Reading can be very hard work.  It can be very intense, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually and even the Bible points out that ‘much study is a weariness of the flesh’.  Therefore we need to make opportunities for other things as well, like physical activity, good food, creativity, laughter, and music, but not for extra screen time.

The Bible also tells us to beware of anything beyond the teachings of the wise.  Now, we know that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, but we also know that even unbelievers can discover and write about parts of the truth.  It has been said that because we are people of the Book, we need to read other books as well as the Book.  However, choosing books carefully requires wisdom and practice; this is a week of going through piles of books and learning how to choose the best.

But enough of these generalizations.  I am often asked practical questions about reading week and here is a list of answers, reposted from the past—you’ll notice that we reread certain books regularly:

What’s Reading Week?  Well, one week a year we take time off from formal schoolwork and spend an entire week reading.   Yes, we still feed the chickens, go for walks, eat, and sleep.  We even manage some music practice.  But, mostly, we read.

What do we read?  Whatever we’re interested in.  This year we have all the Bill Peet picture books out again; that seems to be an annual tradition that we all love.  Miss 12 has a pile of Nate Wilson books to explore, I want to reread some gluten-free living books, Freddy the Pig has come back once again to entertain us all, and we’ve ordered all the David Macaulay DVD’s and books (Cathedral, Castle, Motel of the Mysteries, etc.) that the library has.

But why?  Is there a reason we do this?  Obviously, there’s nostalgia, like our annual Bill Peet indulgence.  And there’s is learning, like the books about Van Gogh and about writer’s groups.  There is pure enjoyment, like Peter Speier’s wordless picture books and Don Aslett’s hilarious dejunking books.  And there is excitement, as in the Asterix, Beowulf, and The Cricket on the Hearth.

The other reason is quite practical.  We live close to a tiny country library in a city-wide system of huge libraries.  Our library is often on the endangered list, quite literally, and as homeschoolers we depend on it.  So, years ago, we began our Reading Week to coincide with our library’s annual counting week.  I suppose it’s actually Save the Library Week.

It’s the week we order more books than usual, visit the library every day, and pull a lot of books from the shelves.  We also request a lot of books from other branches.  Usually we have 50 or so books requested; during reading week it is often over 200.  Usually we have less than 80 books out; during reading week it is several times that.  Our reading week helps the library’s statistics, and our librarians are grateful to (and proud of) ‘their’ homeschoolers.

And the final big question:  Will we ever read them all?  No.  There are already three books in our return box, one of them full of blasphemy on the only page I checked.  We don’t need that.   But we will read most of them.  Our children are amazingly fast readers, and I’m no slouch at whizzing through a book either.   A lot of the books will be enjoyed from cover to cover.  On the other hand, I won’t read every recipe in every gluten-free cookbook.   I’ll skim through many books and study a few in great detail.  And Asterix will be read, reread, and chuckled over.

There are, of course, a few more niggling practical matters:

Where do we store all those books?  In rows and piles in front of our bookshelves. (Or, this year, in piles in the middle of our living room, as you can see above.  Sigh!)

How do we keep track of them?  Very carefully, according to our usual system for avoiding library fees.

Doesn’t it make a mess in our house?  Yes, and after a month I’m always thrilled that most of the books are gone.

Are we invalidating the library statistics?  No.  As you can see from the numbers above, we’re taking out more books than usual, but not that many more in terms of a library’s output.  Just enough to make the librarians love us, not enough to make them hate us.

We love Reading Week.  Great books, no schoolwork, special snacks, and the opportunity to really delve into one author’s works are all wonderful treats.  We have learned, though, that we must keep a bit of a normal routine of mealtimes, chores, and outside time or everyone will become grumpy in a few days.  It’s true that reading can be over-done.

But my homeschooled kids know my weakness and love to point out, “You learn from reading, Mom!”   Implying that therefore it’s all OK, and, really, it is, because it’s as much of a break for mom as for the kids.

If you’ve never enjoyed a Reading Week, try one.  You might be starting an annual tradition and even if you don’t it will be a memorable week at worst and a life-changing one at best.

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Review: Glow Kids by Nicholas Kardaras


If every parent knew and acted on the research presented in Nicholas Kardaras’s Glow Kids, students would learn much better, fewer kids would be on medication for attention and mental health issues, and the psych wards for young people would not be as full.

I have been trying to review Glow Kids: How Screen Addiction is Hijacking our Kids—and How to Break the Trance for months, and each time it would expand into a lengthy exploration of various concepts in the book.  Earlier I discussed the practical educational applications of this book for homeschoolers as well as the mental health implications of screens for kids  Here, finally, is the book review itself.

For some time, screens seemed to be the solution to a whole host of parenting-related issues.  They held promise as educational miracles, replacing teachers and enabling even young children to learn incredible amounts of information.  They seemed to be a splendid babysitter, pacifying young children with educational programs and keeping teens safely off the streets while still allowing them to connect with others.

But, as always, there are negative aspects and it turns out that the negative impacts of screens are far more significant than anticipated

You can read the rest of my review here.

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Disclosure: I borrowed this book from the library on the recommendation of a pediatric concussion specialist (statistically, phone use and kids’ susceptibility to serious concussions have increased at the same time) and have given my own honest opinions.

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