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Zeal Without Burnout for Homeschoolers

At this time of year most homeschoolers are feeling a little bit burnt out.  That’s no wonder after an intense ten months of teaching some of the most important people in our lives some of the most important things they will ever learn.  Or perhaps vainly trying to teach them without actually succeeding, which is even more tiring.

And then there are all the other things we do as well.

Recently I realized that, for the past few years, I have been trying to do more than I can physically manage.  Although some of the biggest energy uses have been unavoidable and completely necessary, I should have given myself more downtime to refresh afterwards.  Christopher Ash’s book Zeal without Burnout is helping me come to terms with the fact that zeal, while important, must be tempered with wisdom in order to last (Rom 12:11).  Few of us are called to overwork ourselves for more than short seasons of our lives.  In general, God calls us to be wise, not foolish, burning out our lamps without having extra oil to spare.

Sometimes, however, we do not realize when we are doing too much.  What’s more, at one time or another many of us deal with the temptation to choose to do more than we should and we occasionally foolishly set ourselves up for burnout without even realizing it.

And that’s where Zeal without Burnout comes in.  It shows us how to live lives that are both effective and sustainable. Yes, there may still be all kinds of sacrifice, but it is sustainable sacrifice so that we can continue to serve God zealously for the long term.  This is a message that most of us moms, especially homeschoolers, need to hear.

Ash’s Seven keys to a lifelong ministry of sustainable sacrifice are so simple—and also so obvious—that we really should not need such a book.  However, one of the signs of approaching burnout is that the person often does not realize what is obvious to others:  the pressure he or she is under.

So, here is a quick list of the seven points that Ash discusses with gospel wisdom, practical advice, and stories.

  • We need sleep, and God does not.
  • We need Sabbath rests, and God does not.
  • We need friends, and God does not.
  • We need inward renewal, and God does not.
  • A warning: beware celebrity!
  • An encouragement: it’s worth it!
  • A delight: rejoice in grace, not gifts!

We all repeatedly need be reminded of the biblical truth that we are finite and that therefore our service has limits.  We also need the reminder that God has no limits and is ultimately in control.

As homeschooling parents, then, we need to remember that our children are God’s children and that he loves them.  Of course, we need to care for them, read the Bible with them, teach them math, insist on completed schoolwork, supervise cellphones, and so much more.  But even more, we need to trust God.  We need to remember that we cannot give them learning and, especially, we cannot give them faith.  While we obviously need to do our best, we need to trust God, not our own intense efforts, for results.

When we forget this in our everyday lives, we put ourselves at risk for burnout just as surely as the workers in Christian ministry that Ash has written this book for.

If all homeschoolers, indeed all parents, would read Zeal without Burnout and take it to heart, the world would change for the better.  Of course, this little book is also helpful for anyone else who loves God and is tempted to serve him with more zeal than wisdom.  I highly recommend it as summer reading for homeschooling mothers and everyone who wishes to serve God sustainably for a lifetime.

Note:  These ideas are not for lazy people and this is not a plea for taking it easy.  It is a plea for wisdom in serving God.  Ash’s book helps us understand what that means.

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Disclosure: We borrowed this book from the library and are not compensated for our honest opinions.

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Review: Fundamentals I from Traditional Cooking School by GNOWFGLINS

For the last few years, my kitchen has been rather boring—there has been good healthy food, especially when the garden is producing, but very little excitement.  That is changing now that I’m studying Fundamentals I:  The Basics of Traditional Cooking.

The course ebook is appropriately subtitled Make your kitchen healthy one task at a time, and that is what I’ve been doing.  One task at a time can make an enormous difference, it turns out, because the tasks add up.  For example, at one point there were two jars of water kefir on my counter, nearing the end of their brewing time.  On the far end of the counter I put the milk kefir I just started, and beside it a little bowl of pecans, soaking in water.  On the stove a large bowl of oatmeal muffin mix was soaking in milky-yoghurt, waiting to be baked the next morning for breakfast.

I’m very pleased with that memory, because it was a major accomplishment as well as a major improvement in health value, even though everything took less than half an hour to prepare.  Even better, all these projects represent traditional ways of healthy food preparation whose health benefits are only now being understood.

Over the past three decades, I had dabbled in traditional foods—yoghurt, milk kefir, sauerkraut, sprouts, bread baking, and even cheese making, but only one at a time and usually with a sense of uncertainty and worry about my methods (except for the bread and yoghurt which I learned from my mother).  My husband and friends shook their heads good-naturedly and the kids enjoyed almost all of the foods I made, but when illness struck a decade ago I quit almost all of these practices, except the occasional batch of yoghurt and sauerkraut.

Recently I have become determined to make traditional foods a routine part of my life since they seemed to offer the health that I am searching for.  So I started Fundamentals I from the Traditional Cooking School by GNOWFGLINS to bring health back to our family, especially me, and to give my children healthy skills and tastes.  Wardee Harmon, who turned her family’s health around with these techniques, is so full of enthusiasm and knowledge in this course that she helps me to keep on going even though I do not have much energy.

What’s covered in Fundamentals I?  It’s an amazing array:

  • Soaking whole grains, nuts, and seeds
  • Soaked whole grain muffins and pancakes
  • Soaked whole grain biscuits and pasta
  • Soaking and cooking dry beans
  • Sprouting beans
  • Cooking chicken and making chicken stock
  • Skillet dishes—a dinner formula
  • Water kefir
  • Dairy kefir
  • Soft, spreadable cheese
  • Sourdough bread
  • Sprouting whole grains and sprouted flour baking
  • Natural pickled foods

Wardee’s self-paced, online course does an excellent job of explaining each of these processes.  She gives video lessons for those of us who really need to watch something to feel confident about doing it ourselves.  All the little things that can’t be written down are obvious in the videos, so there is no guesswork.  The course also includes audio lessons (which I ignored) and a detailed, organized companion ebook (totalling 178 pages!) full of data, tips, explanations, background information, answers to common questions, and links to related articles on the enormous website.  It is all very user friendly.  For example, Wardee included detailed lists of supplies, with explanations and discussions of alternatives, for the entire course as well as a schedule checklist so you can plan when you want to tackle each project.

How has Fundamentals I changed my life?  Well, our counter is a busier place, and our fridge is filled with ‘new’ foods, many of them in mason jars.  Right now, cheese curds are slowly draining on my counter; there are two bottles of yummy milk kefir, as well as whey from the cheese and left-over pancakes made from soaked flour, in the fridge; I’m making sauerkraut in a jar this afternoon; and I plan to soak some beans today as well.  Each day I look forward to my enormous cup of milk kefir and I’m thrilled to be able to turn ordinary milk into such a delicious, healthy treat with so little effort.  Our kitchen is exciting again and, at no extra ingredient cost, it is also much healthier.

More importantly, after incorporating some of these new foods into my life, how do I feel?  It is difficult to be certain, at this stage, how much traditional cooking is benefitting my health, especially since I started it in the spring when we were finally able to obtain truly fresh produce again.  However, I am no longer getting worse and it seems I’m getting slightly better.   On top of that, my tummy usually feels good these days and that is a big deal.

Unfortunately, much of the healthy eating world is based on the theory of evolution which has its flaws, to put it mildly.  I am so thankful that Wardee bases her convictions on the Bible.  As just one example, many health conscious people these days say that grains are bad to eat because we all evolved from a hunter-gatherer lifestyle and have not yet adapted to eating grains.  Wardee rightly points out that at creation God gave mankind every plant that bears seed as food; we’ve just forgotten how to prepare them for optimum nutrition, something traditional cultures do as a matter of course.

Here is some more information about Fundamentals I from the Traditional Cooking School.

Tips for taking the course: 

  • Look at the supply list and immediately order what you will need, especially if you do not live in the US. As a Canadian, it has taken me several months to obtain the required cultures and I’m still waiting for a sourdough starter.
  • Print out the ebook chapters as you use them and put them in a binder with sticky tabs to mark the ‘how to’ sections.
  • When you prepare a recipe, write notes about exactly what you did and how you did it. I found myself tweaking certain things—like making the recipes gluten free by using our favorite flour mix and adding guar gum, or adjusting the water kefir recipe to help the grains to grow.
  • Read the FAQs at the end of each ebook chapter—they are so helpful!
  • Also, do join the Facebook group if you do Facebook. I am not a regular there, but it is a helpful and active community.
  • Use the suggested schedule form on page 12 of the ebook to plan your learning and keep track of what you have done.
  • Take Wardee’s advice: see this process of learning to improve your family’s health by traditional cooking as a part time job, and just make it happen.  It’s easy to be intimidated by all the newness and ‘forget’—we all know how that goes—but with just a bit of determination you can make quick, simple, inexpensive tweaks to your family’s diet that will make a real difference.
  • Your goal is to get into a rhythm of preparing these foods. It doesn’t take much time.  If you are like me, it just takes regular reminders.
  • Each technique is easy to learn, but making them all part of your life takes a bit of persistence. Be patient with yourself as you work on this.
  • Reread “13 Tips for Maintaining and Establishing New Routines” (p 27) regularly as you work to develop these new habits.
  • Do not serve your family kefir until it is cold. Warm kefir, especially warm water kefir, is not a pleasant experience.
  • It is worth trying each of the techniques for a while, but not all of them may suit you and your family. For example, we currently eat almost no sugar, so the water kefir increased my sugar consumption enormously, and I decided to give up on it. On the other hand, if your family regularly drinks pop or juice, water kefir would be a healthy and tasty improvement.   (On that note, if you are local and would like some free water kefir grains, please contact me.)
  • As a strictly gluten-free household, we have not been able to try all of the lessons but our gluten-free flour mix did work well in the soaked baked goods with the addition of a bit of guar gum.
  • We found it easy to adapt the recipes to our low-sugar lifestyle by just reducing or eliminating sugar in the recipes. In fact, the soaked oatmeal muffin recipe (with our gluten-free, low sugar adaptation) has become a staple at our house.
  • My kids occasionally shake their heads at all the kitchen adventures, but in the meantime they are observing the techniques and seeing that it is both possible and worthwhile to prepare healthy foods traditionally. If, eventually, they want to take a high school credit in traditional cooking, the quiz at the end of the course will be helpful in assigning marks.

Potential Problems

  • Obtaining supplies.  Depending on where you live, obtaining supplies may be a major bottleneck as it was for me, so the first thing you want to do when you start this course is look at ‘Getting Started’ to source supplies.  Those who live in the US should be have no problems, though.
  • Trying to do things too quickly.  If you want to add all these skills to your life, it will take time, because you are not only adding skills but also developing new habits.  I was planning to rush through this course in a month, and that was absolutely not possible.  Wardee wisely includes a schedule that is much slower, allowing time for one major learning project a week, and this is a sensible pace for lasting adoption of the techniques.  As she points out, it’s a good idea to treat this course as a job and commit to working on it regularly, even though life may be busy and will always have unexpected surprises.
  • Feeling that you have to try everything (I wanted to but couldn’t) and permanently adopt everything (I decided not to).  Some things will work for you now, others will be possible later, and some may never suit you.  At least, with this course, you can make informed decisions. And, if you want to try something at a later date, do make a note in your calendar so you won’t forget.

So, the bottom line—is this course worthwhile for you?  If you are looking for a more natural way of eating/healing, one that is much less expensive than taking supplements and much safer than many medical options, one that seems to have health benefits that are only now being understood,  then absolutely, yes.  This course will make a difference.  And in the long run it will save both time (you’ll have more energy and less doctor visits) and money (less supplements and medications).

In fact, Fundamentals I basically takes many of the whole foods you eat already and uses traditional methods to make them healthier.  Although Wardee eloquently recommends organic, locally grown foods (and also suggests which ones are crucial to get organically and which ones are less important), I currently can only manage non-organic ingredients.  However, their food value can be hugely improved by traditional cooking methods.  So, no matter whether organic is an option for you or not, by fermenting, culturing, soaking, and sprouting, you can quickly improve the health value of the whole foods you already eat.  All it takes is a bit of knowhow.

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Disclosure:  I have received a free membership to Traditional Cooking School in order to review several of the courses.

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Review: Darwin, The Voyage that Shook the World

Many of the papers and books I’ve been reading these days have been influenced by Darwin’s thought; most of our news items are as well; and our entire culture is driven by offshoots of his ideas.  Science, politics, medicine, social sciences, law, literature, music, and even Christian thought have largely absorbed Darwinian concepts of survival of the fittest, natural selection, evolution, and the irrelevance of God and his gospel to everyday life.

A decade ago a documentary was being prepared about this man and his thought, Darwin:  The Voyage that Shook the World.

We have watched Darwin a few times now, and each time I enjoy both the professional quality of the film and the discussions with experts from around the world.  Each time something new sticks with me.  This time, I remember the boy Darwin exploring nature, the young man absorbed in the exhilarating world of ideas, and life aboard the ship.  Costumes, acting, scenery, and the HMS Beagle itself were a treat to watch.  I also happily noticed that several of the experts are science historians, a field I have been dabbling in for a few years.

Although Darwin:  The Voyage that Shook the World is full of information, the cinematography and the well-written script make it interesting to children as well as adults, to laypeople as well as scientists.

What is unusual about this quality documentary is its even-handedness.  It does not idealize or idolize Darwin, but on the other hand, it does not vilify him either.  Instead it presents him as a brilliant and engaging person who thought deeply about many things and whose thought was shaped by great men such as Erasmus Darwin, Lyell, and others.  It shows how his observations, beliefs, and aspirations led to his ideas. Finally it discusses his ideas and shows under what circumstances they are valid and where they have problems.

The overall tenor of the film is that Darwin’s discoveries lead to our culture’s main paradigm as well as to significant scientific ‘research problems’.  These problems are well-known to the actual researchers in various fields but not to many others, and any scientists who are willing to discuss them openly risk being targeted by promoters of evolution theory.

With its beauty, professionalism, broad spectrum of recognized experts, and clarity, this documentary gets around some of the rhetoric commonly used in the origin of life debate and can be appreciated by people on both sides of the argument.  If only people would listen to each other, respect each other, and be willing to acknowledge their own presuppositions, they could examine facts together and understand each other’s conclusions.  But people with opposing religions rarely do such things and, for Darwin and many of his followers, the theory is as much about fundamental religious/philosophical  presuppositions as it is about facts.

I highly recommend Darwin:  The Voyage that Shook the World for homeschoolers in middle school and high school.  It is an excellent accompaniment to Apologia’s Biology chapter 9 but is interesting on its own as well.  Of course, the concepts discussed in this movie are vitally important for everyone in our society, not just homeschooling teens.

Resources like this form part of our math and science reading and ‘extras’, an essential aspect of our homeschool science studies.

Books I’m pondering that lead back, in some way, to Darwin’s ideas (links are to my reviews):

Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey—cultural and social results of the theory.

No Christian Silence on Science by Margaret Helder—research problems involved in modern origins research.

A Mind of Your Own by Kelly Brogan—a classic example of how evolution is assumed and used as a basis of a whole train of thought.  (In this particular case, the awe and deference accorded to evolution and the universe could just as easily be given to God; most social science books are not ‘spiritual’ like this.)

Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis—how to make unbelievers and influence people, profoundly but obliquely relevant.

Total Truth by Nancy Pearcey—cultural results of evolution and examples of the fabrications, acknowledged in prestigious scientific journals, used to promote it over the years.

Busting Myths by Sarfati and Bates, a tip-of-the-iceberg biographical collection of scientists who use the paradigm of creation in their research.

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Disclosure: We borrowed this DVD from the library and have expressed our own honest opinion.

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Summer Fun and Learning Ideas

Now that we fall asleep to the deep croaks of bullfrogs and the robins are once again nesting in my husband’s good extension cord, it finally feels like summer! We will continue our usual schoolwork for another month, but it is definitely time to start planning a good long break, with a bit of learning.

Recently some of us over at the Curriculum Choice shared our families’ ideas for summer fun and learning.

Heather wrote about ‘Adventure Boxes’ and how to make them, a different kind of ‘Summer Reading Challenge’, and ‘How to Host a Summer Writer’s Workshop.’  The writing workshop post is a goldmine of resources for all ages.

Heidi talked about all sorts of summer fun, from ‘Making Ice Cream’ to ‘Dollar Store Forts’ to ‘Summer Reading’, and she also discussed ‘How to Schedule a Homeschool Year with Summers Off.’

Eva gave many examples of how learning comes naturally as a family enjoys summer adventures.  Journaling and summer bucket lists can help with planning and remembering special experiences.

Tricia discussed the joy of summer fun and how to use all the extra time that is available when there are no lessons or extracurricular activities.  She uses some of that time to help her children build habits and to rest.  This summer she and her talented mom are hosting an online Summer Art Camp.

And here’s my contribution:

Summer can raise tricky questions for homeschoolers.  Do we do any official learning?  Do we continue on as usual?  Do we take the whole summer off?  Each of these has pros and cons, and our family has tried various approaches.

For us this summer will most likely be a mix of holidays, part time jobs, volunteering, and math. I hope to read, be outside, and rest, but first I’ll need to finish our high school records for this year.

If you are wondering what to read, I put together a helpful list of homeschool books last year.

We have often followed a three-step approach to planning our summer.  We would brainstorm our dreams (always a helpful exercise), list things that absolutely needed to be done, and then put together contracts and checklists for ourselves.

If you want ideas for a busy and productive summer, you might want to see my very ambitious plans from half a decade ago. One year I even published a list of things that I myself needed to catch up on, my ‘nibbled to death by ducks’ list.

But some summers one just needs to slow down.

I wish you wisdom and peace as you plan for a summer of memories, growth, and refreshment.

The entire article ‘Summer Homeschool Ideas’ is available at The Curriculum Choice.

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Dreams, Kitchen Adventures, and the Perfect Gift

One of my dreams is to cycle through the Dutch tulip fields with my husband.  Yes, it sounds impossible and it may be, considering that someone recently asked me why I don’t have a handicap parking permit!  Yet, dreaming is fun and, who knows, perhaps I will get well again.

These days I’ve been working very hard at getting well from all sorts of angles, but the most interesting approach recently involves food.

If you’ve ever looked at superfood lists, you have read how important bone broth can be for all sorts of aspects of health.  A simmering crockpot full of bones is nothing new for our family; it makes yummy and healthy soups and, an important factor in our student days, it costs essentially nothing if you buy boney cuts of meat.

In my quest for health I now enjoy a cup or two of bone broth almost every day, seasoned with salt (pink Himalayan salt since it’s supposed to be healthier) and sometimes pepper and garlic powder.  It is surprisingly delicious.

Boney cuts of meat are not plentiful enough to support my new habit, though, so the other morning I phoned around to search for soup bones.  I did find some, as expensive as a nice steak, and that I could not justify.

Then my son told me of a grocery store that often sells bones so Miss 15 and I dropped by to get them, but there were no bones to be seen.  Instead, we came home with a package of salmon scraps, including a head that glared at me accusingly until I dropped it into the pot.  I’ve only rarely cooked salmon scraps, so that was an adventure in itself (to debone salmon, cook, cool, and use your fingers).  I added onion, sweet pepper, hot pepper, garlic, fresh ginger, cabbage, salt, pepper, and lovage, and the resulting soup was the best we’ve had in a long while.   The salmon bones, of course, went into the crockpot with garlic and ginger to make bone broth.

But here’s the best part.  A few hours after my husband heard of our failed bone-hunting expedition, he walked in with a present, a huge 25 pound box of soup bones that he bought from his buddy the butcher!  So then we had fish stock cooking, a box of marrow bones in the freezer, and the promise of gallons of the most delicious—and nutritious—stock imaginable.  What a blessing!

There is something so special about getting exactly the right gift at the right time: bones to make bone broth, fuel for dreams of being well enough to cycle through Dutch tulip fields.

I am very grateful for my husband, who understands what kind of gift means the most.

Note:  I thank Wardee of Traditional Cooking School who reminded me of the importance of drinking lots of bone broth. Although we’ve always made smaller amounts  using this chicken or turkey stock recipe, I needed her encouragement that it really is important enough to drink every day.

If you enjoyed this article, you might want to follow me on Google+, where I often mention helpful or interesting ideas, friend me on Facebook where I am just a newbie, or connect with me on GoodReads where I, eventually, share what I read.  

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