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Wrapping Up: The Past Six Weeks

Here we are in a December world full of snow so crunchy that it sets Miss 15’s teeth on edge.  The bunny and the chickens, including a gorgeous new rooster, are warm in their insulated places, and our older dog Rex has graciously allowed young Sparky a (small) place in the barn.  Inside, our fire is roaring and I bring cups of tea to anyone studying away from the fire.

Apparently, though, the hot tea is not completely necessary.  It seems that computer ‘mining’ for ethereum, the latest cryptocurrency, creates a lot of heat.  I’ve also been told that it’s very efficient to study where it is cooler.

Homeschooling

And studying is happening.  Lots of it.  Biology, logic, math, French, Dutch, Bible, English, Omnibus, physiology, accounting, and more.  I am pleased by how the girls are finding their own study patterns.  Miss 17 likes to do little bits of many subjects each day, and as long as she works every day, she progresses.  Miss 15 prefers to spend hours on her big challenge, biology, and then focus on only a few other subjects before her headache gets bad.  She has even had a few days without headaches, and after years of concussion-related problems this is a great blessing.

Miss 15, frustrated with BJUP’s Elements of Literature because its reading selections are inherently unimportant, has switched to Omnibus 1.  That has its own challenges, but no one can say that the readings are useless.  Omnibus 1, a Christian guide to classical literature and history, begins with Genesis, Exodus, the Code of Hammurabi, and the Epic of Gilgamesh.  I’m not sure yet about Gilgamesh—the story is quite something—but it was undoubtedly part of Abram’s life and knowing the culture he came from gives insight into his background.  In the meantime, we also have to consolidate the basics of literary analysis, and we have the Fundamentals of Literature study guide I posted recently to help us.

On the other hand, BJUP literature is a good fit for Miss 17 but taking their entire American Lit course is a bit much, especially for a Canadian.  So we will cherry pick our way through the American Lit course, learning a Christian way of looking at literature, and adding on a chapter of humor and some Canadian literature as well.  A fringe benefit of the BJUP course is that it gives a good introduction to US history as well, just as the ancient lit of Omnibus 1 is also essentially a peek into the ancient world.

Miss 17 is studying James Madison Critical Thinking for logic.  I’ve gone through part of it with another one of my children before but got stuck at a certain point and had to let her go on by herself, which she did admirably.  This time we are actually doing it together, so I really do need to understand.  With the help of Kahn Academy, I realized that my problem was simply that I expected logic to make sense and represent truth whereas it is, at certain points, merely a game with certain rules—at least according to some theories of logic which are still being debated by brilliant people in ivory towers.

One highlight of the past month was ‘Leadership Lessons from Vimy Ridge’ with Rev. Dr. John Pellowe, a Remembrance Day presentation sponsored by CARDUS.  If you ever have a chance to attend this presentation, you won’t regret it.

Occasionally homeschoolers notice unexpected gaps in knowledge.  With the advent of electronic Bibles there is much less practice remembering where in the Bible a certain book is.  So we are working on that.  I found a Quizlet to help, and yesterday the girls spent quite a bit of time playing Bible Racko, a home-made alteration of the game Racko that uses index cards with Bible names instead of numbers.

Life

This has been a time of enormous changes in our family.  Miss 20 has moved into an apartment with her older sister, a bedroom was freed up at home, and the ‘Little’ Misses now each have their own room.  There is less laundry and chatter, more texting, and even sisterly group chats on Facebook, something I did not even know was possible.  Change is hard.

But some changes are good, and Miss 15 is feeling better many days.  I’ve been learning about pain, reading medical papers, studying books recommended by doctors, applying nutritional concepts, and also understanding more about homeschooling with pain.  Working memory, the librarian of our minds that accesses our memories when we need them, is a fascinating thing but easily derailed.  Mind mapping, developed by Tony Buzan, seems to be a valuable tool.  Of course, it is completely counterproductive to change study methods when things seem to be working, but it is good to have some knowledge of alternative techniques to help tweak learning patterns if necessary.

We have also worked on chicken health.  Did you know that if a chicken is sick it can be helpful to give her an Epsom salts bath?  Of course, that also necessitates blow drying, and some time in a warm house under observation.  So, for the first time ever, I watched a chicken make a nest: she sits down, carefully selects a piece of straw (yes, straw in the house!) and then tosses it over her shoulder.  After a few hours of this, she’s sitting in a nest made of just the right bits of straw.

For a month now I’ve had no stamina at all and often even the smallest everyday tasks have been an enormous challenge.  I am grateful that I can spend the homeschooling time sitting (or even lying) down, and that things like laundry and kitchen work can be done in little bits spread out between more sedentary activities.  I am so thankful that I can still read and think!  And, in a sense, I am even grateful for my poor health, since much of the reading and studying mentioned above would not have happened if I had been able to rush about as usual.

There is an essay, very influential in the classical schole approach to homeschooling, that discusses work, leisure, and culture.  In “Leisure: The Basis of Culture,” Josef Pieper’s definition of leisure is radically different from the contemporary one, and he emphasizes that the only true leisure we can experience is rooted in worship.  This landmark piece in 20th century philosophy considers ideas from the Greeks to the previous century from a Roman Catholic point of view and would be worth serious study.  The whole idea of culture is vital for us homeschoolers to understand, especially in light of Paul’s command in Ephesians 6:4 to enculturate our children in the culture of the Lord.   In any case, I’ve used my ‘leisure’ while ill to learn and in that sense leisure is the basis of culture, although that is only the tiniest fraction of what Pieper is writing about.

Book

I also completed a number of books:

Just Do Something by Kevin De Young, a short, powerful book about making decisions.  Here is an even briefer explanation of similar ideas in a sermon on ‘Your will be done’ based on Matthew 26:36-46 and Lord’s Day 49 of the Heidelberg Catechism.

Anthony Van Leeuwenhoek and his “Little Animals” by Dobell, a collection of Van Leeuwenhoek’s own descriptions of what he saw through his microscopes, edited by an expert.  It is like visiting with “an enthusiastic, naïve genius sitting across from you and telling of the exciting world he sees for the first time,” giving glory to God in his discoveries.

Leisure: The Basis of Culture by Josef Pieper, which contains the essay discussed above; I did not read the second essay thoroughly.

The Mind Map Book by Buzan, a colorful, creative way of organizing ideas, notes, or projects that seems to be very effective for some.  After I learned to make mind maps I started dreaming them, but it is still a bit more intense than my usual way of taking notes and takes a bit of extra effort I have ‘no time’ for.  I think mind mapping may reflect the intenseness of the leisure mentioned by Pieper in the essay I just discussed.

The Wealthy Barber, apparently Canada’s all-time best-seller.  This says something about Canadians as well as something about the book which is both humorous and full of common sense.  We assign it as part of homeschool personal finance (which also includes The Treasure Principle and Dave Ramsey’s Foundations in Personal Finance for High School) and I both laugh and learn each time I read it.

The Cat of Bubastes by George Henty which is my favorite book by Henty.  It includes lots of lush greenery and nature, we bump into Moses, and we learn about some background ideas of Egyptian religion.  Most fascinatingly, however, we learn about the one true God from a completely different point of view.   This old teen novel is an excellent accompaniment to the study of Exodus.

When Tides Turn by Sarah Sundin, recommended to me by Miss 15 as the best of her Reading Week books.  It’s an exciting, Christian, thought-provoking war story with the requisite bit of romance.

To balance out the American point of view of When Tides Turn, I read Hilda van Stockum’s war novel for children, The Winged Watchman, based in the Netherlands.  I had never read it before but it is a beautiful story of trust, good, evil, and the importance of thinking as well as acting. And when the little sister accompanied her mother’s Hail Mary’s with ‘Mary, Mary quite contrary,’ I laughed aloud.

Since I have health issues, I skimmed through Green Smoothies for Life and found a list of super-simple detox methods that would be easy to implement and that have been recommended elsewhere for other health reasons.  They are fun, too, and include scented Epsom salts baths.

If you have electronics you need either a very patient young person to give you the Essential Tips and Shortcuts, or the book Pogue’s Basics.  Mr. 22 is very patient and knowledgeable, but after a certain number of questions I don’t want to impose on him even more, especially since I sometimes forget what he told me earlier.   So I really enjoyed what David Pogue had to say.

I love books, so books about books are a goldmine to me.  The Rainey List of Best Books for Children is one of the best book lists I’ve read, up-to-date, Christian, and full of fun for ages 0-12.  If you want to do your kids a favor, do get this book.

The best doctors assign reading.  Here’s an assigned book that covers concussions and pain as well as many more conditions:  The Brain’s Way of Healing by Norman Doidge.  Its ideas are so cutting edge that they seem almost crack-pot, but the book is full of documentation from scientific literature.  And—surprisingly, or perhaps not— some of the ideas intensify the wisdom of Charlotte Mason’s focus on  attention, music, outdoor time, movement, diligence, and great thoughts instead of franticness.

Our Bible reading has been unusual.  Because we do it at meal times, and because people are often missing, we have been going through our main readings rather slowly.  When my husband is home, we read Genesis; when both of the girls are home we continue in Jeremiah; and otherwise we go through Psalms and Proverbs following a simple formula.  We have been reading a lot of Psalms and Proverbs.  In my personal reading I have just finished Hebrews and I think I finally understand it a bit after reading it many dozens of times through the years, because this time I focused on the big picture.

As for my resolutions for 2017, they have radically altered.  Rather than walking 10,000 steps a day, I now aim for 2000-3000, except on days when I feel too tired even for that.  Rather than trying, vainly, to get the words of Romans into my head in the right order, I am now focusing on general overviews of other epistles.  And dealing with those little notes that clutter up my desk is not as important as filing the huge stack of papers, mostly medical, that are cluttering up both my space and my mind.  Also, I’m trying to understand how to set priorities and plans for next year, learning from the past and trying to avoid its mistakes in the future.

How have homeschooling and life gone for you at the end of 2017?  Are you content with the things you did?  Thinking back, have you been able to learn a few things that you can tweak in 2018?

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Review: The Rainey List of Best Books for Children

Our family loves books.  By reading we learn about God, ourselves, and the world.  We learn wisdom:  how to live well in this world, and what ‘live’ and ‘well’ and ‘world’ mean.  We go places we could never go on our own and learn from other people’s hard work and hard-won experience.  And we have fun.

However, if we read the wrong books we learn only foolishness that wastes our time and, potentially, encourages us to waste our entire lives.

So it is vital that we choose our reading material wisely.

David Rainey, a Christian homeschooler and a librarian, sees his List of Best Books for Children as his family’s legacy to share with booklovers everywhere.  David and his daughter Anna recommend over 500 out of thousands of books that their family has read, discussing each one in a chatty and informative way.  They share toddler books worth reading over and over (like Good Night Moon), as well as funny books, inspiring books, read-alouds, and children’s novels.  These books will provide hours of enjoyment and learning.  I am convinced that children exposed to these books will become accustomed to what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious, excellent, and worthy of praise. (Philippians 4:8)

Although more and more modern authors are building negative influences into their books, the Raineys focus on ‘good books that are also clean and free from controversial issues, profane language, romantic plot elements, inappropriate humor, and undesirable role models.’ (p 133)  If these restrictions sound extreme, remember, the age range is 0-12; of course controversial issues and romance need to be addressed with older children.  As for the other restrictions, sin for sin’s sake is never appropriate, no matter one’s age.

David presents his family’s favorites arranged according to age and type of book, from board books (remember Spot?) and picture books for all ages to poetry, chapter books (Alexander McCall Smith has written mysteries for children!), and children’s novels (from Homer Price and 21 Balloons to Detectives in Togas).  Obviously he includes older books, but he also has many newer ones that I am eager to discover.

I am fairly fussy about what books young children should read, and when I look at booklists I check how closely the author shares my values.  The Rainey List of Best Books for Children resonated with me in almost all aspects.  In fact, this is the first time I’ve ever seen anyone else point out that the first 19 books about the Boxcar Children are much better than the later volumes.  The only objection I have to Rainey’s recommendations (but do recall that I have not read many of the newer children’s books) is The Secret Garden, a lovely story with strong elements of pantheism.

Not only does The Rainey List of Best Books for Children bring back wonderful memories, but it also sent me to the library website to request a few of the most intriguing newer titles.  I was startled to see Eats, Shoots, and Leaves:  Why, Commas Really Do Make a Difference!  in the list, but it turns out this is a funny children’s version of the adult grammar book with a similar title.  There’s also The Girl’s Like Spaghetti:  Why, You Can’t Manage without Apostrophes!  Of course, I requested both.  Also the Alexandar McCall Smith books about young Precious Ramotswe, and Bach’s Goldberg Variations by Celenza, and Click, Clack, Moo, a hilarious picture book about cows that type.  In fact, our family of teens and adults has already started enjoying the new books.  Thank you, David and Anna!

The Raineys also present some useful lists that will enhance trips to libraries and bookstores:  gift books for various ages, books that teach life lessons, princess books, dinosaur books, truck books, fairy tales, and award-winning books.

Of the various tips scattered throughout the book, this is the most important:  get your children to read aloud to you even if they can read well.  First of all, it’s fun and builds relationships.  Furthermore, all sorts of problems can be noticed if you do.  For example, your eager and proficient young reader may not really be reading at all but may have come up with an impressive array of other skills including memorization, guessing, and picture-reading.  When young, my husband ‘read’ like that until his father noticed him keep on ‘reading’ when he turned two pages at once by mistake; one of Rainey’s children did something similar.

If you have children, I highly recommend The Rainey List of Best Books for Children.  Written by a librarian who is a homeschooling father, it is full of excellent book recommendations for ages 0-12.  It would make great gift—I gave a copy to a mom of newborn twins named after Louisa May Alcott and Beatrix Potter and am giving one to my sister as well—and it is becoming my new favorite baby gift.  This book would be valuable for homeschool, church, and public libraries as well.

For more information, see the website.

Note:  There are other great book lists, but many of them, like Honey for a Child’s Heart, Honey for a Teen’s Heart, and Books Children Love, are dated; The Rainey List of Best Books for Children includes very recent books as well .

Somewhat related:  Older readers and their parents would benefit from Reading with Purpose, a guide to discernment in reading written by Nancy Wilson.

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Teaching Geography in the Homeschool

Over at the Curriculum Choice this week, some homeschooling moms are discussing how they teach geography in their homeschools

Among other things, Heather, mom of 4 kids aged 12 and up, shares how her family combines Earth Science and Google Earth with geography.  She also presents a Narnian atlas as a free download.    

Heidi, mom of three, has many practical suggestions and links to freebies and shows how her high schooler made his own atlas.

And Tricia shares her artistic houseful’s hands on projects, including a link to an intriguing free high school geography program

Here is my contribution:

When my father reads books, he often has an atlas open.  That has been a wonderful example, and we occasionally do it as well.  More than that, we have absorbed his attitude and most of our geography has been learned by reading.  After all, many of the best books involve elements of geography.

Here are some read alouds we loved:  Northern Magic, Kon Tiki, We Never Meant to Go to Sea, Carry On Mr. Bowditch, Two Years Before the Mast (very interesting, but not good as a read aloud—we actually gave up on it), The Swiss Family Robinson, Hudson’s Bay:  Everyday Life in the Wilds of North America (required some editing of gruesome events while reading aloud to young children, available online here).

There are also The Brendan Voyage (and anything else by Tim Severin), many of the books by G. A. Henty (often not politically correct but a great source of history and usually also full of interesting geography, available online here), and Henty’s biography.  Your library will likely be full of travel stories, some of which make the best geography resources.

And, although I don’t entirely like it, my girls have learned an enormous amount of geography by watching the Grand Tour travel episodes with their brother. (Note that the language and values are not ideal, but apparently no worse than in other modern media.)

My children have always enjoyed atlases, wall maps (we even had a world map on the kitchen table under a plastic sheet until my longsuffering husband finally protested and we switched to map placemats), and online maps.

Finally, we enjoy the competitive computer game Seterra, easily the best resource for memorizing countries, cities and more, as well as Flags (simply awesome, my girls think), Name that Country, and geography puzzles. When the children were young, we loved Geography Songs; it was almost like a secret code to identify other homeschoolers.

If you are looking for geography ideas, do visit the Curriculum Choice to enjoy the entire article, Teaching Geography in the Homeschool.

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Review: Embodied Hope by Kelly Kapic

Pain and suffering require good theology because often, during intense pain of any kind, the whole question of how God’s sovereignty and goodness relate becomes intensely personal.  Often Psalm 92:15—The Lord is upright; he is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in him—becomes a very difficult confession.  Is God really good?  Sometimes it’s an arrogant question, but when there’s suffering it is often something entirely different.

In Embodied Hope: A Theological Meditation on Pain and Suffering, Reformed theologian Kelly Kapic considers physical pain and discusses ‘how a Christian might live in the midst of suffering.’  That is, ultimately, what those in pain need, far more than abstract theories of the problem of suffering.

Kapic, a professor with a wife who suffers severe chronic pain, insists that to help others with pain we need both pastoral sensitivity and theological insight.  Without careful study of who God is (theology) we often head into psychology and moralism. Conversely, without loving and knowing the sufferer, we may end up with harsh principles.

With a deep understanding of the gospel, of pain, and of the writings of godly men like Augustine, Athanasius, Luther, Calvin, and Bonhoeffer, Kapic explores how hope and lament are intertwined.  He discusses how we can deal with the fact that God’s good creation has been compromised, how we experience that as we suffer, how to lament that biblically, and how God’s faithfulness ultimately shapes biblical lament.

Vigorously rejecting the ancient and still common idea that the body and its pain are not important, Kapic points out that God created our bodies as well as our souls.  Our bodies are essential to our identity as individuals, to our relationships, and to our worship. And all of that is tied to Jesus Christ, who is hope embodied, hope made physical.  Jesus is the answer to the sufferer’s questions and he is God’s solution to the brokenness of the universe.  Because of him our sufferings are not the final word, nor are pain, aging, forgotten memories, or death.

However, it is not only our individual relationship to Jesus Christ that counts; our relationships in the body of Christ are also vital.  In fact, suffering shows how essential the body of Christ is to each member.  Kapic states that we are in essence ‘members of a larger body, and thus also inherently unstable when isolated.’

If this is true in general, it is even more important when someone is suffering.  Being is pain is not a safe place to be alone.  Lonely pain opens up temptations to despair, to dwelling on already-forgiven sins, and to questioning God’s care.  A Christian who suffers chronic pain alone is vulnerable to Satan’s attacks, but a Christian who suffers in the body of Christ is, ideally, carried and encouraged by the faith, hope, and love of other believers.  For example, when Luther was ill, he begged prayers from his friends that he would be saved ‘from blasphemy, doubt and distrust of his loving God.’ (126)

Even so, sufferers must not ultimately look to other believers but to God’s revelation in Christ, since all faith, hope, and love ‘must ultimately point to and come from the triune God, and not merely from the communion of saints.’

Of course, believers need to learn how to come along side those in pain.  We often just want to help and, while this can be very important, our goal should not be to ‘fix’ the other person.  Rather we must learn to accept that pain is real and that the suffering person often just needs someone to be there.  It can be very hard to watch someone suffer, and many people feel helpless and want to run away.  Instead, we need to learn to share God’s love, perhaps with a glass of cold water, or a card, or a smile, or perhaps with endless hours of simply being there, suffering faithfully together, listening, honestly accepting the pain, and pointing to Christ, together.

Just as the suffering person needs other believers, so other believers need sufferers.  And, as Kapic points out, sufferers, too, have a responsibility.  They can encourage and serve those who are well by loving them and being grateful and compassionate.  They ‘need to beware of abusing others’.  ‘Those dealing with a great deal of pain often have to work hard to avoid self-absorption and cultivate neighbor love.  It takes intentionality.  It takes a missional focus.  But it can be life-giving.’ (160)

In Embodied Hope Kapic, as the husband of a wife with chronic pain, shares many practical insights.  Yet he always comes around to this:

Beloved, amid the trials and tribulations of life, let us have confidence not in ourselves, not in our own efforts, but in God.  This God has come in Christ, and he has overcome sin, death, and the devil.  While we may currently be walking through the shadow of death, may our God’s love, grace, and compassion become ever more real to us.  And may we, as the church, participate in the ongoing divine motions and movements of grace as God meets people in their need. (164)

This book has helped me come to terms with the fact that chronic suffering exists and has given me insight for supporting my daughter.  I think it will be a blessing to every Christian who suffers physical pain or who loves someone who does, and I strongly recommend it. Embodied Hope would be a great addition to a church library, as well.

Related resources (book links are to my reviews):

Supporting others

Understanding and Managing Pain

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Disclosure: I received a review copy of this book from IVP Academic.

Watching the Sun Come Up

We are all busy with all sorts of important and meaningful activities.  I have been ill, unable to be busy in the usual ways, so one morning I watched the sun come up.

It was amazing, much more amazing than the photos show.

Colors glowing, slowly fading, and then shifting to echoes of themselves on distant clouds.

After a while of appreciating God’s greatness on display outside my living room window, I got impatient.  I wanted the sun to come up.  The colors were fading, the contrast between night and day was smudging away and, even though I am ill, there were things I wanted to do.

Eventually—and yet it was really just such a short time—the sun did come up, a glowing miracle of orange.  And, of course, it was so bright I could no longer look at it even when it was only half way up.  It was just too much, too great, too overwhelming.

Once again I realized that, despite all our technology and ability, we humans are so small compared to the world God has put us in!

Yet it pleases God when we puny people acknowledge what he has made and thank him for it.  Some say that we were created to glorify him, and likely they are right.  So perhaps, resting on my couch immediately after getting up yesterday morning, perhaps I was doing something very important just by watching the sun come up.

And, you know something?  In watching God’s artistry, realizing that my Father is making that all and that I get to watch him at work, I was finding joy.  Those who say we were created to glorify him tie that in with enjoying him—there is joy in doing what we were designed to do.

And my petty impatience with God’s timetable, even for the sun rising but also for difficult matters, is something to repent of and change.  My Father, who continually designs new sunrises as the earth turns, certainly is able to manage all the hard things in my life, and he will, too, because he loves me.

May you, too, be able to thank God and delight in the beautiful world he has given us.  May you, too, find comfort in his greatness and goodness.

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